Academy Award winning portrait of poet and journalist Mark O'Brien, who…
The Personals

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BEST SHORT DOCUMENTARY, ACADEMY AWARD WINNER
The longings for love and intimacy are never-ending. This Academy-Award winning documentary offers an extraordinary look at the emotional lives of elderly Americans. On stage, a drama group of seniors perform their roles with energy and laughter. Off stage, their lives are often lived alone, and in silence.
The Personals follows a group of senior citizens as they rehearse and present an original play at a community theater on Manhattan's Lower East Side. Drawn from the comedy and drama of their own lives, the play is structured around their quest for dates through the personal ads. As the rehearsals progress, the filmmaker's camera follows the individual members of the group into their homes, as it explores both the joys and the sorrows of growing old in America. The video paints a surprisingly humorous and in-depth portrait of a segment of our society whose inner lives are not often explored.
"A group of now single senior citizens living on Manhattan's Lower East Side speak with touching candor about love and loss in the years when middle age is a fond memory." —TIME Magazine
"Strongly Recommended. A solid choice for aging collections." —Video Librarian
"Draws a humorous and in-depth portrait of seniors." —Library Journal
"A sweet snapshot of America's elderly, The Personals is a delicate look at loneliness and the life lessons collected by a group of energetic senior citizens." —Variety
Citation
Main credits
Ibi, Keiko (film director)
Ibi, Keiko (film producer)
Other credits
Director of photography, Greg Pak; camera, Gideon Shmorak; editors, Milton Ginsberg, Keiko Ibi; original score and arrangements, John Califra.
Distributor subjects
Aging; Disabilities & the Arts; Health & Health Care; Sexuality & AgingKeywords
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around your bed in your bedroom.\"
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And I looked at him like he was crazy.
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with the hormones functioning beautifully to find someone?
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[water running]
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Nobody can live without love.
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And I take whatever I can get.
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If somebody kisses me, I kiss them back.
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And if they don\'t kiss me well,
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I\'m sorry about that, sweetheart.
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[water running]
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I\'d like a relationship, I\'d like a friend,
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someone to be nice to me.
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And people say, \"You\'re a pretty woman,
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you\'re this, you\'re smart, you\'re this and that,\"
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and the other saying, \"Why don\'t you get yourself somebody?\"
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But you just don\'t, just don\'t.
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Not that easy.
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[indistinct chattering]
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We\'re gonna start now.
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Our show isn\'t very far off.
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I\'ve been working with the older people
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at the Educational Alliance for over five years now.
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We meet about an hour and a half a week,
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but we\'ve created three original plays.
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\"The Personals,\" it\'s about some older people,
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single older people, some lonely older people
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looking for love.
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I was looking for a new project and there was a paper we had
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right there called The Jewish Week.
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And I said, here, \"Read these personal ads,
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now write your own.\"
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Quickly we got to presenting the living personal ad,
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presenting yourself as your ad.
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I would like to meet a gentleman around my age
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if he can keep up with me.
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If not, younger is even better.
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Write box E-N-J-O-Y, enjoy.
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A couple of smiles might be nice,
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\"Younger might even be better, you know.\"
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What would younger mean to you.
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[audience laughing]
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I never in my wildest dreams thought about doing
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something like this.
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I couldn\'t get up in a room full of people and talk.
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I mean, even to say hello to somebody I couldn\'t.
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But I don\'t feel that way anymore.
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And we are drinking coffee and eating muffins and he says,
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\"After you\'re finished, we\'ll go up to my apartment.\"
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I said I wouldn\'t invite strangers to my apartment
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and I don\'t go to strangers apartments.
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And he got up and he looked at me and he says,
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\"For this, I have to buy you a muffin and coffee?\"
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And he left.
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It\'s not a muffin and coffee.
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Muffling and coffee is not a funny word.
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I had lost my daughter.
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It\'s 26 and a half years ago and I never laughed after that.
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And now I don\'t feel that way anymore
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\'cause I learned how to laugh again.
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It\'s not that we see each other socially
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or anything like that, but it\'s like a family.
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The only one that had did any acting is Harold Gordon.
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He\'s got that kind of passion.
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and he\'ll be operated on the 12th.
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He sounds worn out.
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by August 14th?
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He\'s a very elderly man.
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I don\'t think he\'s gonna bounce back like he\'s 25 anymore.
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We shouldn\'t depend on him for the show.
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I was a kind of a bum in a way.
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I was-
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And being a pragmatic person,
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what the hell I\'m gone marry for.
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But I had a lot of women, I love women,
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have lots of experiences.
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Young ones, middle aged woman.
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Hi.
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How you doing?
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that you were sitting in a wheelchair.
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It\'s just part of life, that\'s all.
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Well, what would you say to me if I wasn\'t in a wheelchair?
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What would you say?
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Play with me.
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oh, I can say a lot of things, but now I-
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Take a lot of time.
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I never put a personal thing in the paper,
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but I did answer it personal.
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Against everyone\'s advice,
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I put a personal in the local paper
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and I got a lot of answers, a lot.
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And he came with a big, big bottle.
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I never saw such a big bottle of Charlie.
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And I was very impressed.
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I mean, bringing me a bouquet of flowers.
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Nobody ever did that for me.
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I said that I was a runner.
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A guy answered me and he called and he said he was a runner.
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So we came home, gets into the house, he fell on me.
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I mean, he tried to rape me.
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A 72 year old man trying to rape me,
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and I don\'t know how to fight him off,
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I can\'t fight him off.
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And he keeps screaming and one thing I hear is,
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\"Try it, you\'ll like it?\" [laughing]
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I said, \"Where is your favorite place to run?\"
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And he said, \"I\'d like to run after you around your bed
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in your bedroom.\"
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And I looked at him, my bed\'s against the wall.
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He\'d go right into the wall.
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I got married young, I was 19.
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It wasn\'t a question wanting to get outta the house.
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I had friends that were older than me,
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and everybody was getting married,
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it was during the second World War.
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And I said, what the heck am I doing?
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I don\'t love them, but it\'s the thing to do, I did it.
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That\'s all, what did I know.
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I never started living until I was 70 years old-
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I was married to a different culture.
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Christmas for me, Hanukkah for him.
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Easter, Passover.
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I love pasta fazoo, he likes the fish.
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I got married in the city hall civil ceremony.
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And we lived happily for five years, very happy.
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He met his old friends and he started drinking,
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and he was never sober.
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I divorced him for that reason.
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♪ La la la la la la la ♪
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Are you a Italian?
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I don\'t sleep with no one.
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And there\'s no reason to sleep with no one.
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Maybe if I was younger, but at this age
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I have to sleep with an old man, what do I need it for?
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Am I right?
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my real first sexual experience,
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you mean the first time I went to bed with somebody.
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We couldn\'t be with our boyfriends alone,
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so where was the sex?
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I married a Jewish man.
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I said, this is it.
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You\'re like a piece of wood.\"
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This may sound strange because we weren\'t taught what to do.
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We weren\'t taught anything.
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I was taught to just lay back, relax,
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that\'s not my marriage.
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I think I was the first girl he had.
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it was awful.
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And then he became impotent after I had my third child.
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And I was only 24 years old.
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and I didn\'t approve of that.
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I can see where things were wrong on my side too,
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but I didn\'t know how to be any other way.
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And I didn\'t like sex.
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Then my life became sorted, really sorted.
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I slept around like crazy until I met this guy
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and he was married and I had an affair with him
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for 20 years.
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Because I don\'t know it on-
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He sounds stronger than he did yesterday.
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My doctor said, \"Go for the operation.\"
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I said, \"You go.\"
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He said, \"You\'re gonna die.\"
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He\'s right.
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So I said, \"I\'ll tell you what, I make you a bargain.
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I have a wedding, September, Labor Day.
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That\'s the first week in September.
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After that you wanna do chap chap, all right go ahead.\"
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I don\'t know if you know what they do,
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they rip you with a sword,
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they cut this out and they spread you apart
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and they take out the heart, right.
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They freeze it, ice cold freeze.
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After frozen solid, because it stop pumping,
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they can work on it, they cut into where the valve is,
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they cut the valve out, put in the other one,
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saw the other one up.
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And take a electric pad, heat it up, thaw it up,
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starts to pump again, back again, saw it up.
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It doesn\'t make me feel very good thinking about it though.
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How nice.
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Harold.
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You take it for your sex life.
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281
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282
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that my tool was not working.
283
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284
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285
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286
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287
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You\'re a grown woman.
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289
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290
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is penetration in the act of fortification
291
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I am not getting there, I\'m not hitting the mark.
292
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[Selma laughing]
293
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294
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Why is she laughing?
295
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296
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297
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and I tried my tongue one time
298
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and that was wonderful for her.
299
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So now I\'ve discovered something about women\'s sexuality.
300
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Some women, not all, some women love to be loved that way.
301
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302
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303
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304
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Anything you do behind closed doors with a sex partner
305
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is normal, there\'s no such thing as abnormality.
306
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If two people get pleasure out of whatever the act is,
307
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why not?
308
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309
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310
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311
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312
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313
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314
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315
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316
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317
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318
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319
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320
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321
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322
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323
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324
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But slight change, if one don\'t succeed, you try another.
325
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326
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327
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It was a wonderful relationship.
328
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I lose track of time with her,
329
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with something that makes me emotional, she\'s gone.
330
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And it makes no difference if it\'s six, seven years.
331
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Life gives you a heart blow.
332
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Even talking about 50, 60 years together
333
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and all of a sudden your mate is gone.
334
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This is almost unreal, it\'s against nature.
335
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336
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337
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338
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339
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340
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341
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342
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Well, that\'s the average 5\'9.
343
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344
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He called me up, we had about an hour conversation.
345
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He worked in a bank,
346
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I don\'t know if he was an officer or not.
347
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His wife had recently died.
348
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He said she was a petite woman,
349
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so I said don\'t go comparing her to me,
350
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I am not a petite woman, I am zaftig.
351
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352
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353
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we don\'t have that much in common, really?
354
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355
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356
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Okay, you wanna meet?
357
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358
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359
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And he came to the door, he said hello, and he says,
360
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\"I double parked my car, I wanna go park it.\"
361
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And he never came back.
362
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363
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I made an appointment with a photographer
364
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to have headshots done.
365
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366
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Go ahead.
367
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I wanna try to get into commercials and I\'ve been told
368
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by professional people that I have it, I can do it.
369
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That\'s my goal now.
370
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371
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Straight into the lens, that\'s good.
372
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[camera clicking]
373
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Okay, change your top.
374
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Okay, change your top.
375
00:17:48.660 --> 00:17:50.013
Okay, change your top.
376
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[all laughing]
377
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378
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[camera clicking]
379
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380
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381
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It would be nice if I got one job,
382
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but I don\'t expect great things to happen.
383
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Whatever\'s gonna be is gonna be.
384
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385
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You feel uncomfortable \'cause you want to be liked.
386
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387
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388
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It\'s too big an issue.
389
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It doesn\'t let you explore other things as an actor.
390
00:18:27.240 --> 00:18:31.590
Not every character you are gonna play is lovable.
391
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Unless you hear the audience laughing,
392
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you think there\'s something wrong.
393
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It\'s the same issue.
394
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395
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And-
[team clapping]
396
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397
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398
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399
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400
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401
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402
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403
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404
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405
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406
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407
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408
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Isador Mendel Loaded.
409
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410
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411
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You know, when I was first married and I got a divorce,
412
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I was so angry, I tore up all the pictures.
413
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But then I stop like a sixth sense told me to
414
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\'cause I always felt I would have a new life
415
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and forget about the old.
416
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417
00:19:26.790 --> 00:19:31.790
that I got in the bank $250,000 and I\'m dying-
418
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419
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420
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421
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like I fell towards my father.
422
00:19:43.800 --> 00:19:48.360
And I haven\'t been a success with men or a marriage
423
00:19:48.360 --> 00:19:52.350
because my role model was my father.
424
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And I thought any man who loved me
425
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would not touch my private parts.
426
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427
00:20:02.956 --> 00:20:04.164
Ring!
428
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429
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430
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431
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432
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433
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I got your name from a newspaper, I saw your ad.
434
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435
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436
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437
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I have two daughters and a son all married.
438
00:20:27.330 --> 00:20:29.913
No divorces, no separations, no nothing.
439
00:20:30.780 --> 00:20:32.040
Am I happy?
440
00:20:32.040 --> 00:20:34.530
Too many things are happening health-wise.
441
00:20:34.530 --> 00:20:36.483
I have a prostate cancer.
442
00:20:37.470 --> 00:20:38.883
So they used radiation.
443
00:20:40.080 --> 00:20:45.080
Right, so the radiation killed all my ability
444
00:20:45.298 --> 00:20:47.340
to make a love.
445
00:20:47.340 --> 00:20:49.020
He says, \"You got a bad heart,
446
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you won\'t live more than a year.\"
447
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448
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449
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450
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I wouldn\'t want to come out right away and say disability,
451
00:20:56.700 --> 00:20:58.860
\'cause what if a person at the other end
452
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would meet me and gets to know me,
453
00:21:00.840 --> 00:21:03.480
then it wouldn\'t be as as important.
454
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455
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456
00:21:08.850 --> 00:21:11.220
and she has a handicap, that\'s why they got married.
457
00:21:11.220 --> 00:21:12.755
But that\'s nothing,
458
00:21:12.755 --> 00:21:16.407
I mean, you have to have a lot more in common than that.
459
00:21:16.407 --> 00:21:17.648
460
00:21:17.648 --> 00:21:18.623
461
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462
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463
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464
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465
00:21:29.454 --> 00:21:31.393
But then once she asked me out,
466
00:21:31.393 --> 00:21:33.620
so that started to fall along.
467
00:21:35.657 --> 00:21:38.880
468
00:21:38.880 --> 00:21:40.423
469
00:21:40.423 --> 00:21:42.770
470
00:21:42.770 --> 00:21:45.679
471
00:21:45.679 --> 00:21:46.620
I know I\'ll wear-
472
00:21:46.620 --> 00:21:48.030
473
00:21:48.030 --> 00:21:49.500
474
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475
00:21:50.460 --> 00:21:53.100
476
00:21:53.100 --> 00:21:55.723
and we\'ll meet at the Education Alliance at 3:30.
477
00:21:56.670 --> 00:21:57.503
478
00:21:57.503 --> 00:21:58.920
479
00:21:58.920 --> 00:22:01.046
480
00:22:01.046 --> 00:22:01.879
You sound great.
481
00:22:01.879 --> 00:22:02.970
482
00:22:05.670 --> 00:22:07.410
483
00:22:07.410 --> 00:22:08.550
you\'re gourmet cook.
484
00:22:08.550 --> 00:22:10.380
485
00:22:10.380 --> 00:22:11.260
486
00:22:12.199 --> 00:22:14.217
487
00:22:14.217 --> 00:22:15.960
488
00:22:15.960 --> 00:22:18.408
489
00:22:18.408 --> 00:22:19.981
Did you say schmuck?
490
00:22:19.981 --> 00:22:21.180
Don\'t get outta here.
491
00:22:21.180 --> 00:22:22.020
492
00:22:22.020 --> 00:22:24.420
493
00:22:24.420 --> 00:22:26.430
Constant disdain, you know,
494
00:22:26.430 --> 00:22:29.910
I\'m only doing \'cause I love the theater, and for you.
495
00:22:29.910 --> 00:22:33.705
You wanna bypass this, I\'m upset, let\'s get another part.
496
00:22:33.705 --> 00:22:34.538
497
00:22:34.538 --> 00:22:36.810
498
00:22:36.810 --> 00:22:38.100
499
00:22:38.100 --> 00:22:40.451
500
00:22:40.451 --> 00:22:41.340
501
00:22:41.340 --> 00:22:42.963
502
00:22:42.963 --> 00:22:44.730
503
00:22:44.730 --> 00:22:46.750
for five minutes so I can ask Seth.
504
00:22:46.750 --> 00:22:48.360
505
00:22:48.360 --> 00:22:49.713
506
00:22:49.713 --> 00:22:50.550
507
00:22:50.550 --> 00:22:52.800
508
00:22:52.800 --> 00:22:54.690
509
00:22:54.690 --> 00:22:56.294
510
00:22:56.294 --> 00:22:57.893
511
00:22:57.893 --> 00:23:00.367
512
00:23:00.367 --> 00:23:03.535
513
00:23:03.535 --> 00:23:05.317
514
00:23:05.317 --> 00:23:06.922
515
00:23:06.922 --> 00:23:07.973
516
00:23:07.973 --> 00:23:09.960
517
00:23:09.960 --> 00:23:11.378
First of all, take a deep breath.
518
00:23:11.378 --> 00:23:13.410
519
00:23:13.410 --> 00:23:15.510
Of all people to have a slip of the tongue-
520
00:23:15.510 --> 00:23:16.789
521
00:23:16.789 --> 00:23:17.895
522
00:23:17.895 --> 00:23:19.920
But I see you fly off the handle like that.
523
00:23:19.920 --> 00:23:22.576
I\'m not saying you don\'t have a reason.
524
00:23:22.576 --> 00:23:24.848
525
00:23:24.848 --> 00:23:25.696
526
00:23:25.696 --> 00:23:27.438
527
00:23:27.438 --> 00:23:28.271
528
00:23:29.405 --> 00:23:30.322
529
00:23:31.190 --> 00:23:32.940
530
00:23:32.940 --> 00:23:34.830
When you see each other.
531
00:23:34.830 --> 00:23:36.718
You hear this sound
532
00:23:36.718 --> 00:23:38.700
♪ Some enchanted evening ♪
533
00:23:38.700 --> 00:23:40.620
To yourself, I mean.
534
00:23:40.620 --> 00:23:42.597
It\'s like you started to hear the bells
535
00:23:42.597 --> 00:23:45.539
and your mouth drops open a little bit.
536
00:23:45.539 --> 00:23:47.237
I wanna see it physically.
537
00:23:47.237 --> 00:23:48.154
538
00:23:49.020 --> 00:23:50.091
539
00:23:50.091 --> 00:23:51.096
540
00:23:51.096 --> 00:23:51.929
541
00:23:55.362 --> 00:23:56.720
542
00:23:56.720 --> 00:23:58.590
543
00:23:58.590 --> 00:24:00.120
I\'m not clear about thing.
544
00:24:00.120 --> 00:24:03.450
Your name does not appear 1130 Drama.
545
00:24:03.450 --> 00:24:06.030
Does this mean that your class no longer exist
546
00:24:06.030 --> 00:24:07.480
that you are off the payroll?
547
00:24:09.150 --> 00:24:11.193
548
00:24:13.020 --> 00:24:14.040
549
00:24:14.040 --> 00:24:16.230
550
00:24:16.230 --> 00:24:19.683
551
00:24:20.670 --> 00:24:24.990
The management said the senior center is not paying for it
552
00:24:24.990 --> 00:24:29.070
and Performing Arts Program no longer will pay for it.
553
00:24:29.070 --> 00:24:32.100
There\'s actually no more money in the budget
554
00:24:32.100 --> 00:24:34.410
to support this program.
555
00:24:34.410 --> 00:24:37.503
But they want me to keep working. [laughing]
556
00:24:38.430 --> 00:24:41.280
557
00:24:41.280 --> 00:24:42.453
just like that.
558
00:24:43.740 --> 00:24:45.750
559
00:24:45.750 --> 00:24:49.680
I knew that every Wednesday I had this to look forward to.
560
00:24:49.680 --> 00:24:52.950
561
00:24:52.950 --> 00:24:55.770
Wednesday I had no anything that tied up.
562
00:24:55.770 --> 00:24:58.740
So I was conscientious, so was everybody else.
563
00:24:58.740 --> 00:25:00.243
564
00:25:01.530 --> 00:25:03.870
He cannot go, we won\'t allow it.
565
00:25:03.870 --> 00:25:07.170
566
00:25:07.170 --> 00:25:09.480
But we had somebody who was a leader.
567
00:25:09.480 --> 00:25:12.300
568
00:25:12.300 --> 00:25:16.260
569
00:25:16.260 --> 00:25:21.260
and the amount of $150, that\'s $75 per semester.
570
00:25:21.990 --> 00:25:23.670
I don\'t know about all of us,
571
00:25:23.670 --> 00:25:26.790
but most of us are living on fixed incomes.
572
00:25:26.790 --> 00:25:28.900
573
00:25:30.060 --> 00:25:32.970
whether to pay the money or to drop out.
574
00:25:32.970 --> 00:25:36.570
They have a hell of a nerve to ask money
575
00:25:36.570 --> 00:25:39.330
for something that we are contributing our time and effort.
576
00:25:39.330 --> 00:25:41.910
577
00:25:41.910 --> 00:25:42.840
and we\'re damn good.
578
00:25:42.840 --> 00:25:44.040
we can do.
579
00:25:44.040 --> 00:25:47.830
580
00:25:48.930 --> 00:25:50.073
and we have a family.
581
00:25:51.960 --> 00:25:56.960
582
00:25:57.270 --> 00:25:59.460
My rent is $400.
583
00:25:59.460 --> 00:26:01.920
584
00:26:01.920 --> 00:26:05.100
Whatever comes in on the social security number, that\'s it.
585
00:26:05.100 --> 00:26:07.200
586
00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:11.070
I needed every penny I could get, I couldn\'t save anything.
587
00:26:11.070 --> 00:26:14.220
588
00:26:14.220 --> 00:26:15.270
and everything is completed,
589
00:26:15.270 --> 00:26:18.604
then I\'ll be asking for food stamps.
590
00:26:18.604 --> 00:26:21.271
[upbeat music]
591
00:26:22.519 --> 00:26:23.753
592
00:26:25.560 --> 00:26:28.890
Some of you left the stage before you left the stage.
593
00:26:28.890 --> 00:26:29.760
You know what I mean?
594
00:26:29.760 --> 00:26:30.720
As you were leaving,
595
00:26:30.720 --> 00:26:32.790
you were walking off the stage like this.
596
00:26:32.790 --> 00:26:35.790
Your acting energy has to stay full
597
00:26:35.790 --> 00:26:37.803
till you\'re way off stage.
598
00:26:38.696 --> 00:26:42.030
You left the stage while you were standing here just now.
599
00:26:42.030 --> 00:26:44.929
600
00:26:44.929 --> 00:26:45.762
601
00:26:45.762 --> 00:26:46.740
602
00:26:46.740 --> 00:26:47.880
603
00:26:47.880 --> 00:26:49.980
604
00:26:49.980 --> 00:26:52.803
and a lot of people just don\'t do it.
605
00:26:54.055 --> 00:26:56.053
And it makes me so nervous.
606
00:26:56.053 --> 00:26:57.180
607
00:26:57.180 --> 00:26:59.363
608
00:26:59.363 --> 00:27:02.610
Seth I get nervous, I get crazy.
609
00:27:02.610 --> 00:27:03.443
610
00:27:03.443 --> 00:27:05.898
611
00:27:05.898 --> 00:27:07.113
612
00:27:09.266 --> 00:27:12.030
613
00:27:12.030 --> 00:27:13.083
614
00:27:13.950 --> 00:27:15.210
I run out of the house,
615
00:27:15.210 --> 00:27:17.280
and everybody on Grand Street knows me,
616
00:27:17.280 --> 00:27:20.650
I\'m walking to my mother, I\'m walking back and walking
617
00:27:22.740 --> 00:27:25.413
and alone, alone.
618
00:27:26.250 --> 00:27:29.550
It\'s too much of a burden to start
619
00:27:29.550 --> 00:27:32.520
getting used to somebody new.
620
00:27:32.520 --> 00:27:33.993
It\'s too much of an effort.
621
00:27:41.730 --> 00:27:43.890
622
00:27:43.890 --> 00:27:46.350
especially older people,
623
00:27:46.350 --> 00:27:49.050
I see the way they look at each other.
624
00:27:49.050 --> 00:27:51.930
I see they hold hands.
625
00:27:51.930 --> 00:27:56.930
I see the touching it\'s what I miss.
626
00:27:58.050 --> 00:28:01.920
What I would really like is not the sex act itself,
627
00:28:01.920 --> 00:28:03.363
I just wanna be held.
628
00:28:04.230 --> 00:28:06.423
I\'m gonna start to cry because this is,
629
00:28:10.200 --> 00:28:11.523
this is hard for me.
630
00:28:13.025 --> 00:28:15.225
It\'s very hard for me, I just wanna be held.
631
00:28:20.940 --> 00:28:22.233
632
00:28:24.120 --> 00:28:26.583
I\'m coming near to the end of my life,
633
00:28:27.450 --> 00:28:31.050
and my life is a shambles, a shambles.
634
00:28:31.050 --> 00:28:35.643
I have no children and no wife and no relatives.
635
00:28:36.662 --> 00:28:40.233
And I don\'t know what to do with the rest of my life at all.
636
00:28:41.825 --> 00:28:46.825
And I\'m afraid of dying and I don\'t know what to live for.
637
00:28:47.820 --> 00:28:51.698
It seems to me that life should have a greater meaning
638
00:28:51.698 --> 00:28:53.448
than it actually has.
639
00:28:54.967 --> 00:28:59.967
What that greater meaning is, however, I haven\'t got a clue.
640
00:29:00.327 --> 00:29:02.744
[soft music]
641
00:29:04.160 --> 00:29:07.493
[indistinct TV chatter]
642
00:29:43.252 --> 00:29:46.002
[birds chirping]
643
00:29:56.380 --> 00:29:58.963
[upbeat music]
644
00:30:04.927 --> 00:30:06.896
645
00:30:06.896 --> 00:30:09.599
And now you are asking me \"Is it worth while?\"
646
00:30:09.599 --> 00:30:11.624
And I said \"how much can you insult me?\"
647
00:30:11.624 --> 00:30:12.502
[all laughing]
648
00:30:12.502 --> 00:30:14.674
649
00:30:14.674 --> 00:30:17.896
[all applauding]
650
00:30:17.896 --> 00:30:21.813
651
00:30:22.854 --> 00:30:24.383
652
00:30:29.830 --> 00:30:30.913
653
00:30:36.787 --> 00:30:39.954
[audience applauding]
654
00:30:41.199 --> 00:30:44.850
Do you know how difficult it is for a man of my age
655
00:30:44.850 --> 00:30:47.580
with a hormone still functioning beautifully
656
00:30:47.580 --> 00:30:48.413
to find a woman?
657
00:30:49.380 --> 00:30:52.140
658
00:30:52.140 --> 00:30:53.640
and you are stranger to me.
659
00:30:53.640 --> 00:30:55.473
I won\'t go to your apartment.
660
00:30:56.700 --> 00:31:01.537
And he gets up and looks at me and he says
661
00:31:01.537 --> 00:31:04.257
\"For this I have to buy you a muffin?\"
662
00:31:06.812 --> 00:31:08.970
663
00:31:08.970 --> 00:31:10.120
664
00:31:11.692 --> 00:31:13.466
You know, I just don\'t go on that basis.
665
00:31:13.466 --> 00:31:15.870
I don\'t believe it.
666
00:31:15.870 --> 00:31:17.310
667
00:31:17.310 --> 00:31:19.337
668
00:31:19.337 --> 00:31:20.367
669
00:31:20.367 --> 00:31:22.770
670
00:31:22.770 --> 00:31:24.670
I didn\'t even think along those lines.
671
00:31:26.067 --> 00:31:28.182
[audience laughing]
672
00:31:28.182 --> 00:31:29.120
673
00:31:29.120 --> 00:31:30.056
674
00:31:30.056 --> 00:31:31.704
675
00:31:31.704 --> 00:31:33.037
Write box Ivana.
676
00:31:35.279 --> 00:31:36.529
Ivana rich man.
677
00:31:37.506 --> 00:31:39.199
[audience applauding]
678
00:31:39.199 --> 00:31:40.205
679
00:31:40.205 --> 00:31:42.002
680
00:31:42.002 --> 00:31:44.852
[audience laughing]
681
00:31:44.852 --> 00:31:45.685
682
00:31:45.685 --> 00:31:46.845
Checking up mt license plate?
683
00:31:46.845 --> 00:31:48.261
684
00:31:48.261 --> 00:31:49.178
685
00:31:51.647 --> 00:31:54.980
686
00:31:56.430 --> 00:31:57.881
Yeah, I know when men lie.
687
00:31:57.881 --> 00:31:58.954
688
00:31:58.954 --> 00:32:01.882
689
00:32:01.882 --> 00:32:04.934
690
00:32:04.934 --> 00:32:08.851
Let me take you to see the beautiful Taj-Mahal.
691
00:32:10.200 --> 00:32:11.769
692
00:32:11.769 --> 00:32:13.352
693
00:32:14.616 --> 00:32:15.449
694
00:32:16.542 --> 00:32:17.459
695
00:32:18.683 --> 00:32:20.796
696
00:32:20.796 --> 00:32:25.796
[audience cheering]
[upbeat music]
697
00:32:43.679 --> 00:32:44.828
698
00:32:44.828 --> 00:32:47.551
699
00:32:47.551 --> 00:32:49.220
Is everyone?
700
00:32:49.220 --> 00:32:50.772
701
00:32:50.772 --> 00:32:52.236
702
00:32:52.236 --> 00:32:53.360
703
00:32:53.360 --> 00:32:55.227
704
00:32:55.227 --> 00:32:56.977
705
00:32:58.248 --> 00:33:00.404
706
00:33:00.404 --> 00:33:01.533
It\'s done.
707
00:33:01.533 --> 00:33:04.432
It\'s done, we can go off now.
708
00:33:04.432 --> 00:33:05.265
709
00:33:05.265 --> 00:33:06.378
710
00:33:06.378 --> 00:33:07.211
711
00:33:07.211 --> 00:33:09.055
712
00:33:09.055 --> 00:33:11.307
713
00:33:11.307 --> 00:33:12.300
714
00:33:12.300 --> 00:33:14.207
Are we meeting next week, Seth?
715
00:33:14.207 --> 00:33:16.651
716
00:33:16.651 --> 00:33:19.234
[gentle music]
717
00:33:36.662 --> 00:33:38.460
718
00:33:38.460 --> 00:33:39.303
That\'s the key.
719
00:33:40.140 --> 00:33:43.323
I think life is so wonderful.
720
00:33:44.370 --> 00:33:48.933
It has so many good, enjoyable things that happen.
721
00:33:54.660 --> 00:33:56.943
722
00:33:56.943 --> 00:34:00.090
or a good steak or a good meal.
723
00:34:00.090 --> 00:34:04.713
Oh this beats sex any time. but I lie, I lie.
724
00:34:07.302 --> 00:34:09.885
[gentle music]
725
00:34:21.390 --> 00:34:22.840
726
00:34:24.360 --> 00:34:29.360
I love that hot water comes out, runs on your back
727
00:34:29.502 --> 00:34:30.933
feels great.
728
00:34:32.270 --> 00:34:35.226
A little thing like that, Cockamamie shower.
729
00:34:35.226 --> 00:34:37.126
A little thing like that I appreciate.
730
00:34:40.045 --> 00:34:42.270
[upbeat music]
731
00:34:42.270 --> 00:34:46.080
732
00:34:46.080 --> 00:34:49.260
But people that grow up nasty and don\'t have friends
733
00:34:49.260 --> 00:34:52.263
and think they are, I don\'t know, better than you.
734
00:34:53.130 --> 00:34:54.937
They don\'t have golden years.
735
00:35:00.660 --> 00:35:05.660
736
00:35:09.030 --> 00:35:10.773
what\'s meaningful.
737
00:35:11.700 --> 00:35:13.710
And it\'s a hard sight.
738
00:35:13.710 --> 00:35:16.050
And I think life will pass me by before
739
00:35:16.050 --> 00:35:17.143
I find what it is.
740
00:35:18.999 --> 00:35:21.666
[upbeat music]
Distributor: The Fanlight Collection
Length: 37 minutes
Date: 1998
Genre: Expository
Language: English
Grade: College/Adult/Professional
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Closed Captioning: Available
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